"Therefore
be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has
loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a
sweet-smelling aroma" (Ephesians
5:1-2).
We
are called to love our Lord. Indeed, we are COMMANDED to love Him. Yet this is
no ordinary command. While it requires us to do something, our duty is not so
much the DOING of something strenuous as it is the ALLOWING of something
wonderful. In the matter of love, we should see God as taking the initiative
and ourselves as having the opportunity to respond to Him.
The
apostle John wrote, "In this
the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten
Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that
we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for
our sins" (1 John 4:9-10). When we're tempted to doubt God's
intentions toward us, we need look no further than the Cross to see what His
desire for us really is. In one way or another, sin always amounts to a refusal
to let God love us. It's a pushing away of the good that He desires us to
enjoy, a selfish resistance to His goodwill. And this is great folly. Nothing
in life is more foolish than to reject our Creator's love because we think we
can get a better deal somewhere else. The wiser we are, the sooner we'll let
Him love us.
Paul's
prayer for his Christian friends in Ephesus was this: "that Christ may
dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love,
may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and
depth and height - to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you
may be filled with all the fullness of God" (Ephesians 3:17-19). To
"know the love of Christ" and to be "filled with all the
fullness of God" ought to be our highest aspiration. And we come closest
to this aspiration when we're "rooted and grounded in love."
So
then, what does it mean to pursue the love of Christ? More than our pursuing
Him, it means allowing ourselves to be pursued BY Him. It's the choice to
accept His benevolent will, ceasing to run away from the great love that He has
desired to give us for so long. To learn what real love is, we must lay down
our rebellion and reach out in obedience. If we do this, then Christ will truly
dwell in our hearts.
Eric