"Let
brotherly love continue." Four simple words that take less than two seconds to say, but a lifetime to
work out. These words come from Hebrews 13:1. They verbalize a frequent command found scores of
times in the New Testament
- the command to love. The words
recorded in Hebrews 13:1 contain an obvious and important implication. They infer that love had,
at some point in the
past, begun among the Christians being addressed. They had proven to be a loving
congregation (see Hebrews 10:32-34).
But there is
another important inference in the verse we must not overlook. The inspired writer is concerned
that the Christian love they have experienced and expressed in the past must
"continue." More pointedly, they must "let" brotherly love continue. It will
continue if they let it. It can continue, but whether or not it does is a choice they must
make. Why in the world
would God need to tell His people to let love continue? Don't Christians automatically love?
Isn't that what they do? Doesn't the Bible say, "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is
of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know
God, for God is love" (1 John 4:7-8)? And don't Christians sing, "Love one another, thus saith the Savior. Children obey the
Father's blest command"? If you have been a Christian very long you don't need a
preacher to tell you why
God repeatedly commands us to love, and especially to "let brotherly love continue." The biggest
hurdle in obeying that command is that sometimes my brother is not very brotherly and not very
loveable! As it turns out,
the church pews are fairly filled with people who prove to be imperfect and more than a little difficult
to love at times! And God tells me when that happens I have a choice: either "Let
brotherly love continue" or act unlovingly and let it come to an end. Like a Roman candle,
what people call love
often springs into life in a ball of fire and blaze of glory only to die almost as quickly as soon as it
is offended or disappointed.
A team of
professional researchers posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds: "What does love
mean?" Six year-old Tammy gave this hard-to improve-on answer: "Love is
like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other
so well." That reminds me of the story of an elderly couple paying for groceries at the
checkout while they discussed the celebration for their approaching 50th
wedding anniversary. A young woman at the cash register shook her head and said, "I can't
imagine being married
to the same man for fifty years!" The sweet old lady looked her straight in the eye and gave
some stern but needed advice: "Well, honey, don't get married until you can." The cross of
Christ confronts us with a powerful truth - God-like love is not a feeling that fizzles when the going gets tough. It is a force that
even nails can't hold back or destroy. As little 5 year-old Max said in the
aforementioned survey: "God could have said magic words to make the nails fall off the cross,
but He didn't. That's love." Max is right. Real love really lasts. "Let brotherly
love continue." Eric