There
was once a good Christian family traveling in a faraway, distant land.
Ok,
it was really just upstate New York. But
they were traveling along visiting with other saints they hadn’t seen for a
while when one night they went out to dinner.
The dad was away from the table when the waitress came and took the
drink orders, perhaps he was parking the car, or
washing his hands. I don’t know that
part of the story. What I did hear was
that when he came back and sat down, the waitress was giving just about
everyone ice tea. Then she asked what he
wanted and he said, apparently, “Same.”
Well,
off she went to get his drink and as he sat there chatting with his family what
did she bring him but a Sam. As in Sam
Adams!
Now,
there’s a lot we could do with this little story. We might consider the difference just a
letter makes. In fact, the lie Eve was
told from the devil only contained three more letters than what God himself had
said. It’s such a small thing to change
life to lie, Sam to Same. But that’s not what I wanted to think about
today.
Maybe
we could contrast how the world thinks and expects people to act vs our being different and set apart. Why wouldn’t our dad want a Sams? Didn’t he have
to put up with “are we there yet?” a zillion times? He’s on vacation after all, and can’t he take
a break from being good all the time, day in and day out? Ah, but that’s not where we’re going.
Funny
isn’t it how proprieties change?
Drinking in a public place, with women and children present? At one time that was unheard of! How common and uncouth! He might as well been swearing, something
else you simply didn’t do in front of children.
Yet the waitress didn’t balk in the least. Society doesn’t do much to
insulate the young from the harshness of life anymore – in fact they think this
is backwards and ignorant. Shame is
overrated and something we need to weed out and remove so we are free to
express ourselves. Blah
blah blah. But again, I really did want to consider
something else.
What
about those who he was visiting? Might
they think “oh, he protests now but maybe he’s used to ordering Sams – it was just a slip on our behalf” and judge the dad
harshly? What about his influence on
those about him who see him? He looks
just as “bad” as anyone else, instead of being set apart and sanctified. It’s easy to jump to this conclusion if we
don’t know all the facts. But let’s
press on.
You
see, my thought for today was more practical than all of that. This isn’t a story about me, and I wasn’t
there. So HOW did I know? Obviously I was told by someone who was
there, and it wasn’t the dad. One of his
family snitched. But no one had to tell God, he was
there all along and saw the whole thing.
Often we forget he sees all we do and say, and that includes the
innocent heart of a father who really did just want some ice tea with his
dinner.
Randy